Not in a selfish way.
More in a way of she discovered herself.
What she wants out of life.
She realized she could do it on her own.
And if you know her you know not quite on her own.
She loves being with her family.
And found joy having her loved ones all around her.
But now after the storm.
She also realized she loved having him in her life.
Life would not seem right with someone else by her side.
She ruled her own world of goodness.